interesting to read Gibran with those views about modern women.
In 'The prophet' he is much more profound, and full of wisdom.

Haven't exactly read any of Kahlil's work, but there be some truth in her words ^_^

The woman of yesterday was had no choice but to be happy as an addendum to man. And with even her next meal probably dependent on the husband, many a wife I am sure forced themselves to adapt and "adjust" to their husbands' weaknesses and vices.

While I agree that Women's time on earth has not yet dawned - a time when females can be truly judged on capability and actions, just as men are, and not looks; a time when violence against women would be a rarity and not an everyday occurrence - I sincerely believe that increased knowledge and freedom of choice are always better.

but sometimes i'm just kind of tired to use my brain, though i really want others to respect me for my wisdom & ability. sigh...

happy new year najah. just wanted to pass u a very entertaining article about iPods!

http://shopping.guardian.co.uk/gadgets/story/0,1587,1115007,00.html

enjoyss

Some of the most profound questions remain profound coz there is hardly ever one real answer

We need to reach the level of profound knowledge if we want to answer a profound question.Some questions can only be answered in the next generation.

History may well seem to have relegated Women to the footnotes... after all they don;t call it HIStory without reason.

But it is Woman's quiet strength, solemn determination, grace and beauty that remains the heartbeat of human civilization. Woman may well feel cheated of her full potential - but believe me, Woman's influence can oft be greater than what may seem to be apparent...

I thought they call it HIStory with reference to Him, as in God?

Found this comment on another website, which i think is also appropriate here:

"Women, by nature, are trained to introspect. We are taught from young of our obligations as future wives and mothers.

The way I see it, the prose highlights the modern woman's need to find a man who 'strives'. Perfection is something none of us will achieve, but there's a stark difference between those who strive and those who don't (and give excuses).

Was discussing this matter with friends, and too often, men today rest on their laurels based on the assumption that their women will fulfill whatever obligations society asks of them no matter what or how they are treated (and this is so true, I know heaps of women killing themselves to keep a job AND raise a family AND maintain a household). No matter what can also mean living with a man who doesn't give two hoots about striving for anything, let alone spiritual enlightenment.

There are so many enlightened boys today, but too few enlightened men. Give them some time in a commitment and they falter. Once cornered, they're too weak to stand up for themselves, and give such excuses as "but I thought we were partners", or, "what about you? what have you don't for me?" rather than do some deep introspection.

Guys out there, there was once a time when being a man meant doing things with dignity. When it meant that you have to stand up for things, have a back bone, and protect your family. Sad state our world is in today, not too many of those types around today.

Yes, we women got picky. But think: if we're going to be carrying around a product of your seed, you better be worth the pain. If we were able to evolve from mothers/housewife to mother/housewife/co-breadwinner, think, what have you done for us?"

Well said Bic...

Interesting comment sampled there Bic. Is it yours though or someone else's? I'm sure that something 'found' must still be credited to its writer.

Also, how can we draw parallels from said comment to Gibran's? I can't quite seem to put my finger on it, but then again I am a bit woozy at the moment.

I found the comment on the link below on a post about what the modern woman demands from men today:

http://minishorts.net/2004_01_01_minishorts_archive.html#107309342805034655

Sorry for jumping thoughts, but I read Najah's post, then the Minishorts post and then the comment and somehow, there was a thread (well at least to me!) =)